After marriage there is a very big change in lifestyle for both the husband and wife. There is the opportunity for the couple to bring both of their ideas, material items, goals, and beliefs to the table and combine them to make something completely new. Or there is a possibility that the couple will keep to their own ways and have a lifelong wedge between them.
There are so many ways a married couple can drift apart after they say, "I do." Having kids is one of the biggest distractions that comes along with marriage. One important thing to focus is to show appreciation, love, gratitude and trust for your spouse.
Many times once children come into the picture, the wives get more busy with household work and the husbands become more busy with work outside the home. This can lead to perceptions that are not always correct. Some of the most common is this: "They don't love me like they used to." When in reality, that is just an assumption thought up when attention is lacking between spouses.
So wives, love your husbands. Husbands, love your wives. Couples, understand one anthers situation and communicate always.
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